Learn English with Modern Family

#11. Boundaries (1)


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Published: 20 May 2018   [ UPDATED AUG 2026 ]
Level 4 (B1+)   |   Time: 2:35
Accent: American
Source: Modern Family [S2 E09]

Mitchell complains about Cam's mom touching him inappropriately when she comes to visit.


Directions 이용안내 Direcciones Instruções Інструкції


  1. READ the VOCABULARY + BACKGROUND

    It is important to read the vocabulary and background before you watch the video. This will improve your ability to understand the video. It will also help you understand how the new vocabulary is used naturally.

  2. WATCH the VIDEO

    The first time you watch the video, just try to understand the overall situation.

  3. ANSWER the QUESTIONS

    First, try to answer all the questions from memory. Then rewatch the video and try to answer the questions that you missed.

  4. WATCH and READ the SCRIPT

    Watch the video again while you read the script. Reading and listening at the same time will help you hear each individual word and improve your listening accuracy.

  5. DO the ACTIVITIES

    There are several different activities that focus on listening accuracy, pronunciation, vocabulary, grammar, and sentence structure.

  1. LEA el VOCABULARIO y ANTECEDENTES.

    Es importante leer el vocabulario y los antecedentes antes de ver el video. Esto mejorará su capacidad para comprender el video. También le ayudará a comprender cómo se usa el nuevo vocabulario de forma natural.

  2. VER el VIDEO

    La primera vez que vea el video, intente comprender la situación general.

  3. RESPONDE a las PREGUNTAS

    Primero intente responder todas las preguntas de memoria. Luego, vuelva a ver el video e intente responder las preguntas que se perdió.

  4. MIRAR Y LEER

    Mire el video nuevamente mientras lee el guión. Leer y escuchar al mismo tiempo lo ayudará a escuchar cada palabra individual y mejorará su precisión auditiva.

  5. HACER LAS ACTIVIDADES

    Hay una serie de actividades diferentes que se centran en la precisión auditiva, la pronunciación, el vocabulario, la gramática y la estructura de las oraciones.

  1. 어휘와 배경 읽기

    비디오를 보기 전에 어휘와 배경을 읽는 것이 중요합니다. 이렇게 하면 비디오를 이해하는 능력이 향상됩니다. 또한 새로운 어휘가 어떻게 자연스럽게 사용되는지 이해하는데 도움이됩니다.

  2. 비디오 보기

    비디오를 처음 볼 때 전체 상황을 이해하려고 노력하세요.

  3. 문제에 답하기

    먼저 모든 질문에 답을 해보세요. 그런 다음 비디오를 다시보고 놓친 질문에 답해보세요.

  4. 비디오 보면서 대본 읽기

    대본을 읽는 동안 비디오를 다시 보세요. 읽기와 듣기를 동시에 하면 각각의 단어를 듣고, 듣기 정확도를 향상시킬 수 있습니다.

  5. 액티비티 하기

    듣기 정확도, 발음, 어휘, 문법 및 문장 구조에 초점을 맞춘 다양한 액티비티가 있습니다.

  1. LER o VOCABULÁRIO + FUNDO

    É importante ler o vocabulário e o histórico antes de assistir ao vídeo. Isso melhorará sua capacidade de entender o vídeo. Também ajudará você a entender como o novo vocabulário é usado naturalmente.

  2. ASSISTA ao VÍDEO

    Na primeira vez que assistir ao vídeo, tente entender a situação geral.

  3. RESPONDA às PERGUNTAS

    Primeiro, tente responder todas as perguntas de memória. Em seguida, assista novamente ao vídeo e tente responder às perguntas que você errou.

  4. ASSISTA e LEIA o SCRIPT

    Assista ao vídeo novamente enquanto lê o roteiro. Ler e ouvir ao mesmo tempo ajudará você a ouvir cada palavra individualmente e a melhorar sua precisão auditiva.

  5. FAÇA as ATIVIDADES

    Existem várias atividades diferentes que se concentram na precisão auditiva, pronúncia, vocabulário, gramática e estrutura da frase.

  1. ПРОЧИТАЙТЕ СЛОВНИК і ОСНОВНУ ІНФОРМАЦІЮ

    Важливо прочитати словник і основну інформацію перед переглядом відео. Це покращить вашу здатність розуміти відео. Це також допоможе вам зрозуміти, як нова лексика використовується природно.

  2. ПЕРЕГЛЯНЬТЕ ВІДЕО

    Коли дивитеся відео вперше, просто намагайтеся зрозуміти загальну ситуацію.

  3. ВІДПОВІДАЙТЕ НА ЗАПИТАННЯ

    Спочатку спробуйте відповісти на всі запитання з пам'яті. Потім перегляньте відео ще раз і спробуйте відповісти на запитання, які ви пропустили.

  4. ПЕРЕГЛЯНЬТЕ і ПРОЧИТАЙТЕ СЦЕНАРІЙ

    Перегляньте відео ще раз, читаючи сценарій. Читання і слухання одночасно допоможе вам почути кожне окреме слово і покращити точність сприйняття на слух.

  5. ВИКОНАЙТЕ ЗАВДАННЯ

    Існує кілька різних завдань, які зосереджені на точності сприйняття на слух, вимові, лексиці, граматиці та структурі речень.

Vocabulary 어휘 Vocabulário Vocabulario Словник


Check the words you already know. Marca las palabras que ya conoces. Marque as palavras que você já conhece. 이미 아는 단어에 체크하세요. Позначте слова, які ви вже знаєте.

  • ☐ ☐ ☐ What is keeping (s/o)? exp. - Why is (someone) late?
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a jalopy n. - an old car
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ cosmopolitan adj. - a mix of many different countries and cultures
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ vibrant adj. - full of life and energy
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a barn n. - a house for farm animals
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ inappropriate adj. - in a way that is not acceptable
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ bless your heart exp. - thank you
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a horsey bite exp. - grabbing someone's leg in a painful way
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ boundary issues exp. - not liking to be touched by other people
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a force field n. - a science fiction term for a protective energy shield
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ This is not in my head. exp. - This is not imagination.
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ god forbid exp. - a way of saying that you hope something does not happen
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a casserole n. - a baked meat or fish dish
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ feel (s/o) up phv. - touch (someone) in a sexual way

n. - noun,    v. - verb,    phv. - phrasal verb,    adj. - adjective,    exp. - expression



Background 배경 O fundo Antecedentes Контекст


picture picture picture
Cam Mitchell Claire
  • Cam and Mitchell are a couple.
  • Cam grew up on a farm in Missouri (a state in the US).
  • Cam's mother (Barb) is coming to visit.
  • Claire is Mitchell's sister.

Questions 문제 Questões Preguntas Запитання


  1. Why is Cam worried?
    Mitchell doesn't like his mother.
    His mother is late.
    Her airplane might have crashed.

  2. Where did Cam grow up?
    Missouri
    Jalopy
    California

  3. How does Cam feel about his mother?
    He doesn't want to see her.
    He thinks she was too strict.
    He thinks she is the best mom in the world.

  4. How many children did Cam's mom raise?
    two
    four
    seven

  5. How does Mitchell describe Barb?
    open
    touches too much
    complains a lot
    strict
    loving
    caring

  6. How does Barb thank Mitchell for buying cranberries?
    She gives him a hug.
    She gives him a kiss on the cheek.
    She gives him a kiss on the lips.

  7. Who does Barb cuddle with?
    Mitchell
    Cam
    Claire

  8. What does Mitchell tell Claire about Barb?
    She touches him too much.
    She is blind.
    She is unfriendly.

  9. How long has Mitchell not liked being close to people?
    Since he met Cam.
    Since he met Barb.
    Since he was a child.

  10. How does Claire bother Mitchell?
    By yelling at him
    By touching him
    By getting close to him

  11. How does Mitchell make Claire stop?
    He punches her.
    He yells, "Stop!"
    He yells, "Force field!"

  12. Why is Mitchell frustrated?
    Cam doesn't notice his mother's actions.
    Cam encourages his mother to touch Cam .
    The problem is getting worse.
    He can't talk to Cam about the problem.

  13. How did Mitchell make Cam angry in the past?
    He was rude to Barb.
    He touched Barb.
    He added some salt to food that Barb prepared.

  14. What did Cam do when he got angry?
    He punched Barb.
    He punched Mitchell.
    He punched a car.

  15. What does Claire suggest?
    He should make Cam see Barb touching Mitchell.
    He should enjoy Barb's touching.
    He should touch Barb in front of Cam.

Score:



Vocabulary Review 어휘 검토 Revisão de vocabulário Vocabulario revisión Огляд лексики


Directions: What expressions from the video have the same meaning as the highlighted expressions in the sentences below?

Instrucciones: ¿Qué expresiones del video tienen el mismo significado que las expresiones destacadas en las oraciones siguientes?

Instruções: Quais expressões do vídeo têm o mesmo significado que as expressões destacadas nas frases abaixo?

지시 사항: 아래 문장에서 강조된 표현과 같은 의미를 가진 표현을 영상에서 찾아보세요.

Інструкції: Які вирази з відео мають те саме значення, що й виділені вирази в реченнях нижче?


  1. Mama should be here by now. I wonder what's [ making her late ]?

    [ keeping her ]



  2. Did she take her [ old car ] or one of them new fancy flyin' machines?

    [ jalopy ]



  3. Missouri's more [ multicultural ] than you give it credit for.

    [ cosmopolitan ]



  4. It's got a very [ full of energy ] cowboy poetry scene.

    [ vibrant ]



  5. If I had one complaint and I do it's the [ not acceptable ] putting of her hands on my body.

    [ inappropriate ]



Sentence Building 문장 만들기 Construção de sentença Construcción de oraciones Побудова речень


Directions: Write sentences about the video clip using the words given. You can change the word form or add words, but you cannot change the word order.
Use a present time frame (tense).
( ) = optional   [ ] = necessary

Instrucciones: Escriba oraciones sobre el videoclip usando las palabras dadas. Puede cambiar la forma de la palabra o agregar palabras, pero no puede cambiar el orden de las palabras. Usa el tiempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necesario

Instruções: Escreva frases sobre o videoclipe usando as palavras dadas. Você pode alterar a forma da palavra ou adicionar palavras, mas não pode alterar a ordem das palavras. Use o tempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necessário

지시 : 주어진 단어를 사용하여 비디오 클립에 대한 문장을 씁니다. 어형을 변경하거나 단어를 추가할 수 있지만 어순은 변경할 수 없습니다. 현재 시제를 사용합니다.
( ) = 선택 사항   [ ] = 필수 사항

Інструкції: Напишіть речення про відеокліп, використовуючи подані слова. Ви можете змінювати форму слова або додавати слова, але не можете змінювати порядок слів.
Використовуйте теперішній час.
( ) = необов'язково   [ ] = обов'язково



Sentence 1

Cam / worried / because / mother / late

Cam is worried because his mother is late.



Sentence 2

Mitchell / make / fun / Cam / grow / up / countryside

Mitchell makes fun of Cam for growing up in the countryside.



Sentence 3

Cam / think / mother / great / mom / that / ever / live

Cam thinks (that) his mother is the greatest mom that has ever lived.



Sentence 4

from / minute / Mitchell / meet / Barb / she / be / open / love / care

From the minute Mitchell met Barb, she has been open, loving, and caring.



Sentence 5

However / Mitchell / think / Cam / mom / touch / him / inappropriate

However, Mitchell thinks (that) Cam's mom touches him inappropriately.



Sentence 6

Mitchell / go / Claire / house / and / tell / her / about / problem

Mitchell goes to Claire's house and tells her about [his/the] problem.



Sentence 7

Claire / wonder / Mitchell / good / judge / because / he / have / boundary / issue / ever / since / he / child

Claire wonders [if/whether] Mitchell is a good judge because he has had boundary issues ever since he was a child.



Sentence 8

Claire / try / invade / Mitchell / space / demonstrate / point

Claire tries to invade Mitchell's space (in order) to demonstrate her point.



Sentence 9

Claire / think / it / all / Mitchell / head

Claire thinks (that) it is all in Mitchell's head.



Sentence 10

Mitchell / not / want / tell / Cam / direct / because / he / think / Cam / overreact

Mitchell doesn't want to tell Cam directly because he thinks (that) Cam will overreact.



Sentence 11

Claire / think / Mitchell / need / make / Cam / see / mother / feel / him / up / and / then / make / Cam / deal / it

Claire thinks (that) Mitchell needs to make Cam see his mother [feel/feeling] him up and then make Cam deal with it.




Directions: Play the audio clip and try to repeat what you hear. Click "Show" to see the text.

Instrucciones: Reproduce el clip de audio e intenta repetir lo que escuchas. Haga clic en "Show" para ver el texto.

Instruções: Reproduza o clipe de áudio e tente repetir o que você ouve. Clique em "Show" para ver o texto.

지시 사항 : 오디오 클립을 재생하고 들리는 내용을 반복해 보십시오. 텍스트를 보려면 "Show" 를 클릭하십시오.

Інструкції: Увімкніть аудіокліп і спробуйте повторити те, що чуєте. Натисніть "Show", щоб побачити текст.


Clip 1
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Mama should be here by now. I wonder what's keeping her?



Clip 2
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You know, Missouri's more cosmopolitan than you give it credit for, Mitchell.



Clip 3
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I don't want to overstate this, but my mom is the greatest woman that ever lived.



Clip 4
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If I had one complaint, and I do, it's the inappropriate putting of her hands on my body.



Clip 5
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Hey Barb, I got you the cranberries you wanted for the stuffing.



Clip 6
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Let me get in there and help you.



Clip 7
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Cam's mom spent half of dinner with her hands all over me.



Clip 8
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I mean, are you really the best judge of this kind of thing?



Clip 9
0:00 / 0:00

What are you doing?



Clip 10
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Well, what does Cam say?



Clip 11
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God forbid I say anything negative about his mom.



Clip 12
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Mitchell, if this is happening, and I'm pretty sure it isn't...



Clip 13
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...then you need Cam to see his mom feeling you up and then make Cam deal with it.



Discussion 논의 Questões de discussão Discusión Обговорення


  1. Do you think Cam's mother is acting strangely, or is Mitchell overreacting? Why? Would you like to have an affectionate mother-in-law like Barb?
  2. Are you a touchy-feely person, or does it bother you when people touch you? Why?
  3. Which people in your life is it okay to be affectionate with? Which people can you not be affectionate with?   (immediate family, extended family, friends, acquaintances, coworkers, classmates, teammates) Does it matter if it is a man or woman?
  4. Mitchell asks his sister for advice. Who do you usually talk to when you need advice? Does she or he usually give good advice? Do you usually follow the advice?
  5. Who do you feel more comfortable asking for personal advice - a close a friend or AI? Why?
  6. Do you have any complaints about your partner's mother or father? What are the complaints?
    (partner = girlfriend/boyfriend, wife/husband)

Script 대본 Roteiro Guion Сценарій


Cam: Mama should be here by now. I wonder what's keeping her?

Mitchell: Cam, that depends. Did she take her jalopy or one of them new fancy flyin' machines?

Cam: Missouri's more cosmopolitan than you give it credit for. It's got a very vibrant cowboy poetry scene.

Mitchell: Not sure you're making the point that you think.

Cam: That's her. Come on. Look alive. Look alive.

Cam: Mama!

Barb: My baby! Oh, little boomer! Oh, puppy kiss! Mitchell, get over here!

Mitchell: Oh! Hey, Barb!

Barb: My baby's baby! Ohh! Oh ho ho!

Cam: Oh, yeah! Well, I don't want to overstate this but my mom is the greatest woman that ever lived.

Mitchell: Cam loves his mom.

Cam: She raised four kids, two barns and a whole lotta hell.

Mitchell: That sounds like a country song.

Cam: And that song would be called "The Greatest Woman That Ever Lived."

Mitchell: Cam loves his mom.


Mitchell: From the minute I met Barb she has been open and loving and caring.

Barb: Oh, I have missed these shoulders.

Barb: Ohh Aaah!

Mitchell: If I had one complaint and I do it's the inappropriate putting of her hands on my body.

Mitchell: Hey, Barb. Got you the cranberries you wanted for the stuffing.

Barb: Oh, bless your heart.

Barb: Mmm mmm mmm! Mmm mmm mmm!

Barb: Let me get in there and help ya. Ohh. Ohh! Ohh! And a horsey bite!

Barb: This is how I like to cuddle.

Mitchell: It's it's been going on a long time.


Mitchell: Cam's mom spent half of dinner with her hands all over me. It was like she was blind and wanted to know what my thighs looked like.

Claire: Are you sure? Are you really the best judge of this kind of thing? You've had boundary issues since you were a kid.

Mitchell: I have not!

Claire: Okay. Sorry. My mistake. Must be Cam's mom. Her issues.

Mitchell: What are you doing?

Claire: Nothing. Just getting a spoon.

Mitchell: Stop it.

Claire: Is it bothering you?

Mitchell: Yes, it is.

Claire: Hey, Mitchell.

Mitchell: Claire, stop it!

Claire: Mitchell, Mitchell, Mitchell.

Mitchell: Force field!

Claire: That never stops being fun.

Mitchell: Good. Listen, this is, this is not in my head, Claire. And it's actually getting worse.

Claire: What does Cam say?

Mitchell: Well, he never seems to notice. And I certainly can't talk to him about it because God forbid I say anything negative about his mom. One time I added salt to her casserole and he went into the garage and punched the car.

Claire: Okay, Mitchell, if this is happening, and I'm pretty sure it isn't

Mitchell: Thank you. Supportive.

Claire: Then you need Cam to see his mom feeling you up and then make Cam deal with it.

Mitchell: Eeeww.

Claire: Think about it.

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